Humans are hardwired to connect, physically, emotionally and spiritually. We were not meant to live life alone. Being single has its perks - no fight over the remote, no cleaning someone else's dishes or compromising about which of the latest box office movies you'll see first. On the other hand, being single for too long can be lonely and isolating.
Findings from the Pew Research Center (February, 2020) show 3 out of 10 people have used an online dating site or app, with 11% having done so in the last year. 12% have married or had a longterm committed relationship with someone they met online, and 23% say they have gone on a date with someone they first met online.
Most online daters shared it was "somewhat easy" to find others that were physically attractive, shared common interests and seemed like someone they would want to meet in person. 7 in 10 online daters also shared they believed it was easy for people using these platforms to lie in order to appear more desirable.
I'm a 40 something on again/off again online dater myself, so I get it! Meeting that special person can sometimes feel like finding a needle in a haystack! On the other hand, online dating is a great tool for weeding out the "not what I'm looking for" men from the "has potential" or "could be the one" possibilities.
Online dating naturally includes a large pool of suitors to choose from, though not everyone has the same goal or agenda. Regardless of the site, members (free and paid) have one or more of the following dating goals:
friends/pen pals
activity partners
hook-ups/one night stands
casual dating
short term dating
long term dating
cohabitating
marriage